Hason….Jiyo….Muskuraoo….Kya Pata…. Kal Ho Na Ho

         

          Just got back from short Diwali vacation and with half broken leg didn't get much chance to roaming around to enjoy festive mood of city. Instead had some free time to analyze myself and most important last week of the year when I got too much unwanted compliments for writing and other habits. Did talk with elders and also got a chance to put my hands on some old books and few writings of my grandparents.

           It took some time to realize that nobody really wanted to change me but it’s really important to improve on certain things. It’s not that easy or cannot be achieved over the night but I will try to improve on it and I know I will. That’s my New Year resolution. Now next few paragraphs are for me, Self-motivation you know ;)

           In life sometimes, everything cannot be planned and even it’s not necessary that it happens the way actually you have planned. But its life and it should be like that only. If everything happens with plan there won’t be any excitement.

           It’s ok if you have not got that much coveted promotion even though you deserved it completely. Even its ok if someone you trusted with your life may let you down. I believe that even its ok if someone you love(d) with all your heart may walk away and that’s also quite possible that you might have lost a loved one (Worse--you may lose yourself).

            People think that the most painful thing in life is losing the one you value. The Truth is the most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of valuing someone too much & forgetting that – YOU ARE SPECIAL TOO.

           It is okay to mourn when this happens. It is okay to feel sad. It is okay to retreat into your shell when life gives you a beating. Even it is ok to listen sad songs on you iPod ;).

           It happens Yaar , such incidence are part of life and it should be there But it is not okay to stay there for longer than is necessary. It is important to come out and FIGHT. It is important to live well. Do the things that bring you joy... Just adding one of my favourite lines from movie KHNH…

“Hason….Jiyo….Muskuraoo….Kya Pata…. Kal Ho Na Ho…..”

           Life is indeed short… very short. Whatever did not work out, accept it. This was just the way it was meant to be. Every bad experience makes you grow, teaches you something.

           Keep your heart and mind open....Do Love things and atmosphere....Express yourself and make new friends....Dance in the chilly winter night (with the help of tequila and vodka shots ;)......Listen to Music at its best.....Do what makes you happy.

And last but not least "GROW" (I know I have to).

Wishing you luck, peace and loads of laughter.

Lesson To Be Learned!!!

There was a farmer who had a horse and a goat…..One day, the horse became ill. So he called the veterinarian, who said: "Well, your horse has a virus. He must take this medicine for three days. I'll come back on the 3rd day and if he's not better, we're going to have to put him down. Nearby, the goat listened closely to their conversation.

The next day, they gave the horse the medicine and left. The goat approached the horse and said: “Be strong, my friend. Get up or else they're going to put you to sleep!” On the second day, they again gave the horse the medicine and left.

The goat came back and said: "Come on buddy, get up or else you're going to die! Come on, I'll help you get up. Let's go! One, two, three..." On the third day, they came to give the horse the medicine and the vet said: "Unfortunately, we're going to have to put him down tomorrow. Otherwise, the virus might spread and infect the other horses".

After they left, the goat approached the horse and said: "Listen pal, it's now or never! Get up, come on! Have courage! Come on! Get up! Get up! That's it, slowly! Great! Come on, one, two, three... Good, good. Now faster, come on...... Fantastic! Run, run more! Yes! Yay! Yes! You did it, you're a champion...!!!"

All of a sudden, the owner came back, saw the horse running in the field and began shouting: It's a miracle! My horse is cured. We must have a grand party. Let's kill the goat!!!! The Lesson: Nobody truly knows which employee actually deserves the merit of success, or who's actually contributing the necessary support to make things happen.

Remember:

LEARNING TO LIVE WITHOUT RECOGNITION IS A SKILL!!!!

If anyone ever tells you that your work is unprofessional,

Remember:

AMATEURS BUILT THE ARK [which saved all the species]

and

PROFESSIONALS BUILT THE TITANIC [all died tragically]

I Hate it....

I HATE IT.

          I hate it when I feel like I'm actually something to someone, and then it all crashes down right in front of me, like it never existed, like what we had was all just a part of a dream. 

          Then I look back at how things used to be and I wonder where I went wrong. Where I could have done things differently. I look at those people now and they make it seem like their lives are better off without me. 

          It hurts but I just need to learn to MOVE ON and realize that people are only temporary. People think that the most painful thing in life is losing the one you value. The Truth is the most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of valuing someone too much & forgetting that –  YOU ARE SPECIAL TOO.

MUST READ for those who think love hurts...and I don't know meaning of love...

I think,Its love...when a little girl puts her energy to give dad a head massage.

I think,Its love...when a wife makes tea for husband and take a sip before him.

I think,Its love...when a mother gives her son the best piece of cake.

Yeah...Its love, when ur friend holds ur hand tightly on a slippery road.

Of course...Its love, when your friend messages you and asks did you reach home on time.

It's love, when your brother make some funny gesture to raise ur mood...

I know that.....Love is not just a guy holding a girl and going around the city.

Luv is actually a name of "care" ♥

Yeah....I love that someone and will keep running no matter how long it takes.....

Ramblings of the overworked mind - Part2

          It was the last day of a friend at office and don't know the reason but i could not resist my self from thinking about the situation by putting my self in it. Everybody have to leave organization at some point of time true..agreed. But which are the factors that affect most during this is it "time duration"???... Nahhh... not agree.I think its the people who lived with you in that span of time makes the difference. Just thinking about my self if i can live away from family then nothing else should matter much right? But still it will affect me lot at this point of time. It could be more painful then leaving home at the age of 16 cause i had reason to leave home at that time and i have reason to stay here at this time.

        Sometimes people come into your life & you know right away that they were meant to be there, to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson, or help you figure out who you are & or who you want to become You never know who these people may be (possibly your roommate, neighbor, professor, company mate, cab mate, long lost friend, lover, or even a complete stranger), but when you lock eyes with them, you know at the very moment that they will affect your life in some profound way. 

            It's true that Nothing happens by chance or by mean of good luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness & sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without this small test, whatever they may be, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight,flat road to nowhere. It would be safe & comfortable, but dull and utterly pointless.If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart, forgive them for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious when you open your heart. If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because in a way, they are teaching you to love & how to open your heart & eyes to things.

         One of the strange post of mine. Confused is it due to the alcohol i had consumed last night or it is due to novel i had read last night. Title of the book was "If it's not forever , its not love"... and the last cover page has heading "What would be your last wish if you were going to die tomorrow?" Well it  might seems too much offensive to negative thought but if not go by some adult content of the book it was really nicely written. 

Life can only be appreciated back ward but it can only be lived forward. So make everyday count. 

Today is the tomorrow you were worried about yesterday.... 

Was it worth to read....?

P.S. Not having title for the post so kept it as common "Ramblings of my overworked mind". Of course it's overworked mind it's morning 5 a.m. when i am completing this draft. By the you can suggest me title after reading if you can.. :)

She Loves Me.... She Loves Me Not...... (ctrl+c , ctrl+v)

She Loves Me.... She Loves Me Not......

 

 

Don't forget to see the reply....

A different Love letter and a beautiful reply to it.

A teenage college guy sent a love letter (in Q/A format) to his classmate..............

My Dearest XYZ,

Please answer the following questionnaire. For Options (a) 10 marks, (b) 5 marks and (c) 3 marks.

1) Whenever you enter the class room, your sight always falls on me because:

(a) Of love
(b) You couldn't control seeing me
(c) Really ... am I doing it?

2) Whenever professor cracks joke, you laugh and turn and look at me because:

(a) You always like to see me smiling
(b) You are testing whether I like jokes
(c) You are attracted by my smile

3) When you were singing in the class, I entered and immediately you stopped singing because:

(a) You are so coy to sing before me
(b) My presence influenced you
(c) You feared that whether I'll like your song

4) When you were showing your child photo, when I asked for it, you hide it because:

(a) You felt ashamed
(b) You felt uneasy
(c) You don't know

5) During trekking, I and my friend gave you hand for lifting you and you took only my friend's because:

(a) You enjoyed my disappointment
(b) You won't feel leaving my hand after grabbing
(c) You don't know

6) You were waiting yesterday for bus and didn't get into your bus... because:

(a) You were waiting for me
(b) You were dreaming about me and didn't notice the bus
(c) That bus was crowded

7) You introduced me to your parents when they came to college because:

(a) I am going to be your groom
(b) You just want to know what your parents think about me
(c) Just you felt like introducing me to them

8) I told that I like girls wearing roses. Next day, you came with a rose on your head because:

(a) To fulfill my wish
(b) You like roses
(c) By chance you got a rose

9) On that day, it was my birthday. You too came to temple early at 6:00 AM because:

(a) You want to pray along with me
(b) You want to meet me before any one could meet on my birthday
(c) You want to wish me at temple because you are spiritual

*If you have scored more than 40, then you love me. Don't delay in expressing it.
*If you have scored between 30 and 40, love is budding in your heart and it's getting ready to bloom.
*If you have scored less than 30, you are in confusion whether to love me or not.


Eagerly awaiting your reply......... love,ABC

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XYZ's reply letter was also in Q/A format........


ABC,

Please answer the following Yes/No questionnaire.

1) If somebody sits in the first row, normally people entering the class, sees them.

(a) Yes
(b) No

2) If a girl laughs and looks anyone, is it love?

(a) Yes
(b) No

3) While singing, if somebody forgets lines of the songs, will he/she stop singing or not?

(a) Yes
(b) No

4) I was showing to my friends (who are all girls) my childhood photo. You poked your nose inside..... Right

(a) Yes
(b) No

5) I avoided holding your hand during trekking. Couldn't you understand yet?

(a) Yes
(b) No

6) Should I not wait for my best friend (Anjali) at the bus stand?

(a) Yes
(b) No

7) Shouldn't I introduce you to my parents as a friend?

(a) Yes
(b) No

8) You have said you also like Lotus, cauliflower, banana's flower. Is it true?

(a) Yes
(b) No

9) Oh was that your birthday. That's why I could see you in temple. I come daily to Temple. Do you know?

(a) Yes
(b) No

 

*If you have answered "Yes" to any of the question, then I do not love you.
*If you have answered "No", then you don't know the meaning of Love.

Hope everything is clear to you.

XYZ

Exam Question :- Define Love

Question in Exam: ==>Define LOVE and explain in details? (16 marks)

MBA Student's Ans: ==> "Love is life.." (marks 1/2 out of 16)

Medical Student's Ans: ==> "Love is Pain.." (marks 1/2 out of 16)

Engineering Student's Ans:  ==>

Definition:

There are different versions exists which define this very complex term LOVE in different circumstances.

Version 1.0 :- Love is Foolishness of wise people and Wiseness of  Foolish People,

Version 1.1 :- Love is Mental Disorder which can be temporarily cured by marriage..

Version 2.0 :-  A serious disorder of Heart due to Relationship between Men & Women that can cause Death of 1 or Both depending on the resistance associated..!!

TYPES:

1 sided & 2 sided

AGE:

Usually occurs in teenagers, but nowdays can be found in any age...
SYMPTOMS:

Tension
Daydreaming
Insomnia
Phone Addiction
Constant Surfing Internet (Mostly Social Networking sites)

DIAGNOSIS BY:

Diary
Photos
Mobile
Blog
TREATMENT:

Anti-LOVE therapy by Father's Shoe or Mother's Sandle.... or it can be punch from Girl's Boy Friend or Brother

(marks 16 out of 16)

MORAL:

Don't Play with Engineers,
they can do any thing for 16 marks...:D

"Mess with the best....die like the rest.... "

POEM ??.....Trying to kill a language : "English"... :P

On to the way to Ahmedabad.Everything seems boring after a week long holidays. Still hangover of fun i had. So for killing a time ...i have tried to kill a language called "English".
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Love is nervousness of first kiss...and....
its the tension of the first lecture miss...



Love is loneliness of empty sky....and
its the emptiness of lonely guy....



Love is the only nature's creature....and
its the disaster of angry nature....



Love is as straight as 1-1 equals zero......
and its as confused as matrix's Hero...



Love is wisdom of foolish person...
and its foolishness of wise person......



Love start when you don't need it... and....
It ends when you most need it....

A little neglect may breed mischief ...

Ever had an argue with developer over small defect. Which they don't consider as defect or issue and you felt that its important as per customer's perspective.

I was just watching a holly wood movie "The Fast & The Furious" Aka "Tokyo Drift" and the mafia boss in that movie says one Japanese proverbs. Don't really recall exact words but has following meaning.

For want of a nail, the shoe was lost;

For want of a shoe, the horse was lost;

For want of a horse, the rider was lost;

For want of a rider, the message was lost;

For want of a message the battle was lost;

For want of a battle, the kingdom was lost;

And all for want of a nail. . .

Same will be applicable for the Software defect. Defect might seems like a nail but you may ending up loosing kingdom here its whole software. :P


P.S. Fighting with Cheater in day time....leads me to write this down. It's really fun to fight though i know i never going to win.... :p

Nice lines.....!!!

It is freshness of the morning dew- fragile yet so beautiful...
It is ipod wiht your favourite playlist - in repeat all mode.....
It is like painters first stroke - vulnerable , unsure yet intense...
It is the uncertainity of the indian monsoon....
It is the like the thrill of the having burf ka gola in chilly december night....
It is as unpredictable as stock market rate...
It is as dependable as your life insurance...
It is noises than ahemdabadi traffic...
It is quiter than dark night on the roof of the 20 story building...
It is more demanding than board exams...and even more challanging than AIEEE or CAT...


Do i still need to say....about what i am talking in above lines ??

I will keep running no matter how long it takes....

Well this might be last post which is written by heart without using mind ..... even i don't feel to update everything over here...

Of course i will keep posting my funny creations over here.... and i would rather select paper and pen to write down feelings.... ;)

Just got someone near by me ...

Someone so perfect....that I can never imagine... 

Someone so mature at the same time so childish... 

Someone so arrogant at the same time so caring.... 

Someone so practical at the same time so emotional... 

Someone so naughty at the same time respecting all mighty... 

Someone is at the touchable distance at the same time almost unreachable... 

I just love that someone....and I will keep running no matter how long it takes...... 

Yes that someone is just like that character "MAYA" of movie "dil to pagal hey" ....and just like king khan of that movie.....I will keep running no matter how long it takes.....