Ramblings of the overworked mind - Part2

          It was the last day of a friend at office and don't know the reason but i could not resist my self from thinking about the situation by putting my self in it. Everybody have to leave organization at some point of time true..agreed. But which are the factors that affect most during this is it "time duration"???... Nahhh... not agree.I think its the people who lived with you in that span of time makes the difference. Just thinking about my self if i can live away from family then nothing else should matter much right? But still it will affect me lot at this point of time. It could be more painful then leaving home at the age of 16 cause i had reason to leave home at that time and i have reason to stay here at this time.

        Sometimes people come into your life & you know right away that they were meant to be there, to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson, or help you figure out who you are & or who you want to become You never know who these people may be (possibly your roommate, neighbor, professor, company mate, cab mate, long lost friend, lover, or even a complete stranger), but when you lock eyes with them, you know at the very moment that they will affect your life in some profound way. 

            It's true that Nothing happens by chance or by mean of good luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness & sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without this small test, whatever they may be, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight,flat road to nowhere. It would be safe & comfortable, but dull and utterly pointless.If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart, forgive them for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious when you open your heart. If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because in a way, they are teaching you to love & how to open your heart & eyes to things.

         One of the strange post of mine. Confused is it due to the alcohol i had consumed last night or it is due to novel i had read last night. Title of the book was "If it's not forever , its not love"... and the last cover page has heading "What would be your last wish if you were going to die tomorrow?" Well it  might seems too much offensive to negative thought but if not go by some adult content of the book it was really nicely written. 

Life can only be appreciated back ward but it can only be lived forward. So make everyday count. 

Today is the tomorrow you were worried about yesterday.... 

Was it worth to read....?

P.S. Not having title for the post so kept it as common "Ramblings of my overworked mind". Of course it's overworked mind it's morning 5 a.m. when i am completing this draft. By the you can suggest me title after reading if you can.. :)

She Loves Me.... She Loves Me Not...... (ctrl+c , ctrl+v)

She Loves Me.... She Loves Me Not......

 

 

Don't forget to see the reply....

A different Love letter and a beautiful reply to it.

A teenage college guy sent a love letter (in Q/A format) to his classmate..............

My Dearest XYZ,

Please answer the following questionnaire. For Options (a) 10 marks, (b) 5 marks and (c) 3 marks.

1) Whenever you enter the class room, your sight always falls on me because:

(a) Of love
(b) You couldn't control seeing me
(c) Really ... am I doing it?

2) Whenever professor cracks joke, you laugh and turn and look at me because:

(a) You always like to see me smiling
(b) You are testing whether I like jokes
(c) You are attracted by my smile

3) When you were singing in the class, I entered and immediately you stopped singing because:

(a) You are so coy to sing before me
(b) My presence influenced you
(c) You feared that whether I'll like your song

4) When you were showing your child photo, when I asked for it, you hide it because:

(a) You felt ashamed
(b) You felt uneasy
(c) You don't know

5) During trekking, I and my friend gave you hand for lifting you and you took only my friend's because:

(a) You enjoyed my disappointment
(b) You won't feel leaving my hand after grabbing
(c) You don't know

6) You were waiting yesterday for bus and didn't get into your bus... because:

(a) You were waiting for me
(b) You were dreaming about me and didn't notice the bus
(c) That bus was crowded

7) You introduced me to your parents when they came to college because:

(a) I am going to be your groom
(b) You just want to know what your parents think about me
(c) Just you felt like introducing me to them

8) I told that I like girls wearing roses. Next day, you came with a rose on your head because:

(a) To fulfill my wish
(b) You like roses
(c) By chance you got a rose

9) On that day, it was my birthday. You too came to temple early at 6:00 AM because:

(a) You want to pray along with me
(b) You want to meet me before any one could meet on my birthday
(c) You want to wish me at temple because you are spiritual

*If you have scored more than 40, then you love me. Don't delay in expressing it.
*If you have scored between 30 and 40, love is budding in your heart and it's getting ready to bloom.
*If you have scored less than 30, you are in confusion whether to love me or not.


Eagerly awaiting your reply......... love,ABC

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XYZ's reply letter was also in Q/A format........


ABC,

Please answer the following Yes/No questionnaire.

1) If somebody sits in the first row, normally people entering the class, sees them.

(a) Yes
(b) No

2) If a girl laughs and looks anyone, is it love?

(a) Yes
(b) No

3) While singing, if somebody forgets lines of the songs, will he/she stop singing or not?

(a) Yes
(b) No

4) I was showing to my friends (who are all girls) my childhood photo. You poked your nose inside..... Right

(a) Yes
(b) No

5) I avoided holding your hand during trekking. Couldn't you understand yet?

(a) Yes
(b) No

6) Should I not wait for my best friend (Anjali) at the bus stand?

(a) Yes
(b) No

7) Shouldn't I introduce you to my parents as a friend?

(a) Yes
(b) No

8) You have said you also like Lotus, cauliflower, banana's flower. Is it true?

(a) Yes
(b) No

9) Oh was that your birthday. That's why I could see you in temple. I come daily to Temple. Do you know?

(a) Yes
(b) No

 

*If you have answered "Yes" to any of the question, then I do not love you.
*If you have answered "No", then you don't know the meaning of Love.

Hope everything is clear to you.

XYZ

Exam Question :- Define Love

Question in Exam: ==>Define LOVE and explain in details? (16 marks)

MBA Student's Ans: ==> "Love is life.." (marks 1/2 out of 16)

Medical Student's Ans: ==> "Love is Pain.." (marks 1/2 out of 16)

Engineering Student's Ans:  ==>

Definition:

There are different versions exists which define this very complex term LOVE in different circumstances.

Version 1.0 :- Love is Foolishness of wise people and Wiseness of  Foolish People,

Version 1.1 :- Love is Mental Disorder which can be temporarily cured by marriage..

Version 2.0 :-  A serious disorder of Heart due to Relationship between Men & Women that can cause Death of 1 or Both depending on the resistance associated..!!

TYPES:

1 sided & 2 sided

AGE:

Usually occurs in teenagers, but nowdays can be found in any age...
SYMPTOMS:

Tension
Daydreaming
Insomnia
Phone Addiction
Constant Surfing Internet (Mostly Social Networking sites)

DIAGNOSIS BY:

Diary
Photos
Mobile
Blog
TREATMENT:

Anti-LOVE therapy by Father's Shoe or Mother's Sandle.... or it can be punch from Girl's Boy Friend or Brother

(marks 16 out of 16)

MORAL:

Don't Play with Engineers,
they can do any thing for 16 marks...:D

"Mess with the best....die like the rest.... "

POEM ??.....Trying to kill a language : "English"... :P

On to the way to Ahmedabad.Everything seems boring after a week long holidays. Still hangover of fun i had. So for killing a time ...i have tried to kill a language called "English".
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Love is nervousness of first kiss...and....
its the tension of the first lecture miss...



Love is loneliness of empty sky....and
its the emptiness of lonely guy....



Love is the only nature's creature....and
its the disaster of angry nature....



Love is as straight as 1-1 equals zero......
and its as confused as matrix's Hero...



Love is wisdom of foolish person...
and its foolishness of wise person......



Love start when you don't need it... and....
It ends when you most need it....

A little neglect may breed mischief ...

Ever had an argue with developer over small defect. Which they don't consider as defect or issue and you felt that its important as per customer's perspective.

I was just watching a holly wood movie "The Fast & The Furious" Aka "Tokyo Drift" and the mafia boss in that movie says one Japanese proverbs. Don't really recall exact words but has following meaning.

For want of a nail, the shoe was lost;

For want of a shoe, the horse was lost;

For want of a horse, the rider was lost;

For want of a rider, the message was lost;

For want of a message the battle was lost;

For want of a battle, the kingdom was lost;

And all for want of a nail. . .

Same will be applicable for the Software defect. Defect might seems like a nail but you may ending up loosing kingdom here its whole software. :P


P.S. Fighting with Cheater in day time....leads me to write this down. It's really fun to fight though i know i never going to win.... :p

Nice lines.....!!!

It is freshness of the morning dew- fragile yet so beautiful...
It is ipod wiht your favourite playlist - in repeat all mode.....
It is like painters first stroke - vulnerable , unsure yet intense...
It is the uncertainity of the indian monsoon....
It is the like the thrill of the having burf ka gola in chilly december night....
It is as unpredictable as stock market rate...
It is as dependable as your life insurance...
It is noises than ahemdabadi traffic...
It is quiter than dark night on the roof of the 20 story building...
It is more demanding than board exams...and even more challanging than AIEEE or CAT...


Do i still need to say....about what i am talking in above lines ??

I will keep running no matter how long it takes....

Well this might be last post which is written by heart without using mind ..... even i don't feel to update everything over here...

Of course i will keep posting my funny creations over here.... and i would rather select paper and pen to write down feelings.... ;)

Just got someone near by me ...

Someone so perfect....that I can never imagine... 

Someone so mature at the same time so childish... 

Someone so arrogant at the same time so caring.... 

Someone so practical at the same time so emotional... 

Someone so naughty at the same time respecting all mighty... 

Someone is at the touchable distance at the same time almost unreachable... 

I just love that someone....and I will keep running no matter how long it takes...... 

Yes that someone is just like that character "MAYA" of movie "dil to pagal hey" ....and just like king khan of that movie.....I will keep running no matter how long it takes.....

I know...how it feels like to call something as yours....completely yours...

Yes, I know how it feels like to call something as yours. Completely yours. My Home, My Friend...My Car...My College...My Company....My Desk....My Cell Phone....Few may not exists after some time span but it always create some attachment when you call something as yours....

It's time for change something is going to be changed shortly. But unlike the last time this time i am prepared for it and it helped me to stop further damage. But still its same feeling when you are going to apart from the thing which you have called yours for quite a  good amount of time. Yes it's time to change project, team and work....

A perfect song for match up with my current situation...

"Aankho ke pardon pe pyara sa jo tha woh nazaraa.....

Dhua sa ban kar udh gaya ab na raha....

Baithe the hum toh khwabon ke chhaon ke tale....

Kahani khatam hey ya shuruwat hone ko hey...."

This project has taught me lots of things. I have made few friends and some of them seems to be life long buddies. I have fought many fights with few of them over the debate of the finding and approving bug. You know importance of the 15 minutes which spent in cafeteria with coffee after hot arguments and discussions.

A famous Quote by johnny depp (pirates of the caribbean fame):-

" If you start loving two person at the same time,

choose the second one,

cause if you have really loved the first one,

you will never have fallen for the second one....".

Is it applicable to other things too ???

I might have started liking this project and team too...but then again this change. I used to say that i hate changes. Not with my team, project, not even my cube or office chair. But it's also fact that i have always got a better things after change. So may be this one also bring some new set of happiness.

May be...but ....I don't care.....Yes i am waiting for weekend ...and I wanted go home. No matter where I go, as I get nearer to my house, people I see in the way seem to be known, familiar even if they really aren't. I remember how outgoing of a person I'd been, but last two years seemed to have changed everything.Yes it's almost two year since i have finished college and entered into this new world.This new world seemed to have changed me in the first place. If I have changed, everything else has too, bit by bit. I'll remember how these years like some pages from my diary.

"Past is nice place to visit

...But...

Certainly not good place to stay"

Yes nothing seems changed directly at first place but fact is everything is changed.

I've reached home. My home. Yes, I know how it feels like to call something as yours. Completely yours.

Life Bites.....(Nopes)... Reality Bites... Life Bleeds..

There is a war going on right now between heart and mind. I know those who know me say it's common for me. For me my heart and mind are like a Tom and Jerry.They never leave a single chance of fighting....

Mind Vs Heart

Tom trying every possibilities of overpowering Jerry but as it happens always Jerry dodges each tricks of Tom. Though in my case role of Tom and Jerry is not fixed any of them can play as Tom Or Jerry depends on the situation. :p

So this time they are fighting for my writings. One says that Writing is Scary don't put everything in words keep some of them to your self while Other one is refusing to accept it. Here are the arguments from the both sides.

Tom Says :-

Writing is scary. Every time I sit down to write, it freaks me out. THEY freak me out, the things I wanna talk about.

Some too personal. Too close.

Some too sad.

Others too preachy.

or some are just so manically happy.

It is hard to decide what lie to choose.

It is scary cause my mind is convinced that someone will look through the words and see what's been hiding all along. No one needs to know. My fears, my tears, my truths, my stories; they are just mine and mine alone

  

Jerry Says :-

Writing is scary, I agree. When it is more about us which we don't usually want others to know about it - can be referred as personal things. 

I know it's bit difficult to digest....

But the beauty of writing is that you can create story as personalize your story with the use of a story or something like that. In that way, we can get out everything we had to ourselves till now, in an indirect way. 

I write about every little pity thing about me, because it gives me peace of mind at some point of time, if not always. We just can't shut ourselves , right ? We have to come out and let that little pain go, somehow. And that's where writing comes. 

Well none of them are ready leave this argument but i need to surrender now. Just wanted to say no matter how hard i try to draw a plot or make a story,my writings will always draw a picture of who i am.

But yupp....I guess I'll continue writing. (Obviously not for generating few more bucks....and in anyways i have kept my this blog ad- free). This blog writing helps me sometimes when it's hard to let go few things and it's even difficult to talk to people about problems, writing really helps in a strange way.

Stuck in life's riddle!!!!

"Stuck in Life's riddle??? You don't need a

 miracle to solve it! 

Deciphering it will take a little longer, 

have hope!!!!"

Just surfing over net and found above image with text "Looking in the mirror to solve life's riddles" and thought of posting it over here with some extended thoughts.

If just consider the love life, sometimes i feel like "How can hearts so young can feel so much of Pain???". But as time spent i get answer and above quote seems to be true. It doesn't take any miracle to resolve you life's riddle. It's just time.

In another way you can also consider the life as "Rubic Cube". It's full of colors as problems. You need to solve it in your way. Everybody will be solving it in their own way but faster the better.

If talking about my self...i was damn good at resolving riddles of the maths but not so good with the riddles of life. But unlike the my Math Teacher (of "Jurasic Yug") i have some very good modern teachers in my life to teach me some techniques of resolving this life's riddles. Yes there are few who are always there and ready to take me out of any damn situations. I just get motivated my self by seeing them living their so tough life with head held high in pride.

Well....ending this sort post by thanking to them who has helped and is helping me out in solving this life's riddle.

I'm taking your advice and looking on the brighter side of life. ;)